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Lily's fan club

Tonight at dinner Lily was the hit of the restaurant! Not only did she have the attention of the staff, but also of other guests! We had the funniest conversation with the kids from the adjacent table. It was so strange and silly at the same time! I'm guessing they were around 6 and 8 years old.

Upon our arrival at the table...

Little brother: (Polite, but surprised) Excuse me...I never seen a baby with earrings before!

Eric: Yes, well. She told us she wanted to get her ears pierced, so we got it done.

Little brother: (Laughing) Oh my!

Older brother: (Highly suspicious of Eric) Hmmm...She seems awfully young to be speaking.

Eric: (Caught of guard by the kid's resistance) Well, she told us through sign language.

Older brother: (Sarcastically) She signs?!

Eric: (Laughing) Yes, my wife taught her.

Older brother: (Looking over at me for a reaction) Uh...

Sarita: No, he's just kidding!

The boys left the table as our food arrived, but our interaction didn't end there.

Little brother: (Attempting to hug Lily) She's so cute. I wish she was my baby. What's her name?

Sarita: (Hesitant about the kid touching Lily) Her name is Lily.

Eric: Well, maybe one day you will have a baby!

Little brother: (Still trying to hug Lily) Hi, Lily.

Eric: (Now also hesitant about the kid touching Lily) She doesn't really know what a hug is yet or how to do it.

Little brother: Maybe we can babysit her?

Sarita: (Trying to pacify the kid and eat dinner) Maybe!

Little brother: I'll give your our phone number. Its XXX-XXXX.

Sarita: (Still eating) Thanks!

The talk with the boy ceased and we returned to our own conversation. But then a whisper interrupted.

Little brother: (Hand over his mouth) Hey! Hey! Our number is XXX-XXXX. I'll write it down.

And two seconds later, he was back at our table with his number written in crayon on a napkin! Honestly, it was too difficult for anyone to read anyway, but his older brother was close behind. He inspected the napkin and was noticeably disturbed.

Sarita: (To older brother) You can take that back if you want.

Older brother: (To little brother) You gave them our number! You gave them mom and dad's number. That's wrong! That's just wrong!

Funny girl!

A thunderstorm in our area kept Lily from sleeping soundly tonight so I didn't have time to work on a fancy video. Still, I wanted to share a few clips from our day. If you look closely in the first video, there is a crumb in her hair--when I handed her the Saltine she started rubbing in on her head! She's so funny!

In the second video, she's playing drums while I was working in the kitchen. I gave her the little spatula as a drum stick, but she decided it was more fun to chew on instead. It seems like she is developing so quickly these days--videos give a more intimate view of our lives than pictures do, so I will do my best to post more.

Good night!

My little shopper!

Our 8-months-old-celebration shopping trip lasted nearly six hours yesterday, but Lily was a great sport! She enjoys being out in public, meeting people and seeing new things. I am so happy that she is comfortable in social situations because I feel like I can take her anywhere with me!

Currently, if I want her opinion on something I want to purchase for her, I hold two options in front of her and the item that she grabs is the one she "picked". I repeat the process, but switch the position of the items to see if she picks the same one. I know its silly, but it is very important to me that Lily learns how to make decisions for herself. This is just my small way of helping her build that skill.

But I must say, I do look forward to shopping together when she is older and can voice her opinion. Its going to be so much fun!

8 months old!

Lily is eight months old today and already has her first job! This week we are testing diapers (Pampers brand) and after completing a survey, she gets $10! I am excited to see her little Nest Egg grow and we look forward to teaching her about using money responsibly as she gets older!

As I write this entry, Lily is next to me eating a Saltine cracker and "dancing". She has crumbs in her hair, on her face, and all over the carpet...but she looks more beautiful than ever! I never imagined feeling so much love in my life for someone I am still getting to know. But here I am, teary eyed at how much she's grown. She is a perpetual mess...a whirlwind of excitement and curiosity...with the world at her feet.

I wonder what God has planned for her life. Although I dream of many things for her, I know He has a future for her, greater than I can imagine. I am so grateful we get to be part of it!

Lily's current hobbies include "cruising" (side-stepping around our furniture, holding on the the edge), dancing, giggling, and typing. I used to open a Microsoft Word document and hold her on my lap so she could use the keyboard, but now (thanks to her friend Alexa) she has a little toy laptop of her own.

Another recent development of hers is the Tantrum! Who could have known our sweet little angel was capable of such dramatic behavior? It turns out she is...and she's pretty good at it too!

Well, we are off to celebrate by shopping for new jammies! We hope you have a beautiful day! Hugs & Kisses!

Updated "Comment" function

I know a few people have had trouble leaving comments on the blog so I updated the Comment format. Hopefully this will be easier for everyone to use.

Just playing around

After posting the previous video I decided to play around with the Movie Maker feature on this video. The whole process was actually very relaxing for me! I always enjoyed creating Power Point presentations and I love love love music, so this was a lot of fun! Maybe I found my new hobby?!

This is a longer video comprised of two clips. The first clip was from a few days ago when Lily was in a silly mood. The second was from April 9th, when Lily first started "dancing" and was actually repeating the movement (with some prompting). I added a Jack Johnson song, but wanted to maintain the audio quality of the clips because Lily's laugh is the best part!!

I realize the text passes too quickly, especially because the font is small...the video screen is also much smaller on the blog than when I view it in Movie Maker! I will keep that in mind next time and try to avoid the same mistake. After a few more of these short projects, I am going to tackle a bigger and better one--Making a video for Lily's first birthday!

Movie time

And now for your viewing pleasure...more HOME MOVIES!!

The first clip is of Lily in the morning--hair all cute & crazy and still in her jammies! The second clip is her "dancing"--Maybe KC and the Sunshine Band is playing in her head, "Shake, shake, shake..."

Bits and pieces

Every day Lily does something amazing and I think to myself, "This event has to go on the blog," but by the end of the day, I find myself so exhausted--I have just enough energy to remember that amazing something as a I drift off to sleep! But before I do fall asleep, here are a few thoughts that come to mind...

If given the choice between her colorful books or one of our books/newspapers/magazines, Lily always goes for the latter! Maybe its the noise the pages make as they turn? Maybe its because the pages actually crinkle in her hands? Or maybe she is going to become an editor when she grows up?

Lily is already sharpening her emotional intelligence. If she and Eric are together without me, she is a lot more independent and content. She easily smiles, plays, and takes more risks with her mobility. If its her meal time, Eric actually has to leave the room because he is such a distraction for her--Lily always has to know where he is in the room!

As soon as I join them, Lily gets more vocal and intently watches my face for reactions to her. When I'm around she is less willing to "travel" on her own and definitely plays up the "baby" role! And when we explain something to her in a stern tone, she only waits a second or two before giving us this big, sweet smile in return. Its the kind that even makes her eyes sparkle!

Just this week I noticed Lily has stopped "humming" every time we rock her to sleep. Now its only some times, although she does still make a few other noises. Like the hiccups, I guess this is just another quirk she will outgrow. It makes me sad (surprise, surprise!). I love her little hum and will miss hearing it! Thankfully that is something I do have recorded!

Not surprisingly, Lily is very interested in music. When I was pregnant, I would listen to my iPod at work and secure one of the earbuds to my belly so she could hear the music too. It made me feel closer to her, sharing a part of myself with this little stranger. Recently James Taylor was on TV and Lily stopped playing to watch him perform. Eric and I had to laugh because she doesn't usually watch TV and she was entranced!

I understand most babies like music...but in a small way it felt great to think maybe our prenatal jam sessions meant as much to her as they did to me.

I love this song!

At the top of our page I added something I wanted to share with you all:

Darius Rucker's* song, It won't be like this for long.

The first time I heard this song I was rocking Lily to sleep for her afternoon nap and it made me cry! And not just cry, as in a few silent tears while I pondered the lyrics, I mean cry-cry--as in runny mascara and runny nose weeping as I held her tightly!

Although its written from a father's perspective, it simply captured the mindset that I have with Lily! Every day I try to soak her in, knowing I won't ever get to relive these precious moments with her. She is growing up so quickly, I wish there was a way I could extend her infant-hood! But of course, I will always thank God for the time I am allowed with her!

I hope you enjoy the song and recognize the gift of each day with your own children! Be blessed!

*Yes, the same Darius Rucker from Hootie & the Blowfish...he's gone country!

Easter blessings!

Easter Blessings!

Our home life...

Birthday wishes!

Happy Birthday Auntie Kristen!

Cherub...

It is impossible to communicate the exact feelings and emotions that Lily brings out of Eric and me, but they are so vivid and intense! There is nothing like holding her close and listening to her gentle hum as she gives into sleep. Her precious face loses the usual excited expression, her cheeks and mouth fall into a little pout, her upturned eyelashes flutter a bit...she looks like an angel!

"Blessed" is the only way I can describe my life, because I know I haven't done anything to deserve all the joy, love, and happiness I experience!

Crawling!

After weeks of moving in reverse, Lily started crawling forward for long distances this morning! She's been bunny hopping around the house but today it all finally came together for her as she crawled from one end of the living room to the kitchen!

Quick note...

Lily is changing so much every day! Her current hobbies include bunny-hopping around, growling, and pulling herself up in her crib. Her most recent special talents are drinking from her sippy and tearing paper.

Earlier this week we had a home photo shoot for Easter and we took about 200 pictures! We were having so much fun and Lily looked adorable!

One Year Anniversary!

So, its also the one year anniversary of me leaving my job to stay home and it has been the BEST year of my life for countless reasons!

I am so blessed for the opportunity to be home with Eric and Lily to truly enjoy every moment we have together! With Eric's unique schedule, it was difficult to maintain our lives when I was working Monday-Friday. Now we have the freedom to sleep in, hang out, or vacation as we please. And Lily is such a precious gift! I can't imagine knowing that a babysitter was getting all her hugs & kisses while I was away at work!

God is and has been SO FAITHFUL to provide for us through this year and we are grateful for the knowledge we've gained through this experience! While I realize being a stay at home mom doesn't work out for everyone--I highly recommend it!

Love at first sight!

Today is the one year anniversary since our first ultrasound! That day was so special and wonderful, I knew right away I wanted to create this blog to share our complete joy with everyone we cared about!

In the beginning, I didn't want to find out our baby's gender because I wanted to be surprised in the delivery room, but after I saw the tiny person on screen I knew I wouldn't be able to resist! It was love at first sight and I wanted to know everything I possibly could about our precious baby! Her little profile was beautiful! Her delicate hands with long fingers were lovely! Her calves, because yes, she already had little calves, looked so...familiar!

Leading up the ultrasound I had so many fears about having a baby--the physical pain, a possible miscarriage, stretch marks all over my body, tantrums when she's three, leaving her with a sitter, dropping her off at school, tantrums when she's thirteen, boys she likes, boys who may break her heart, her self-esteem, this list could go on and on! But seeing her dance around my belly, I instantly knew her--my baby girl. And in that same instant, God replaced the fear with His peace; God gave me the wisdom, common sense, and maternal instinct I needed to be Lily's mother.

And knowing her, allowed me to know more of Him.

Our first day without company is always an adjustment as we try to return back to our "normal" schedule. Luckily the house was clean because Lily and I didn't do very much once Eric left for work. We were so tired, we went to bed at 7 PM and didn't wake up until 9 AM!

Yesterday was also Lily's seven month "birthday" and has been wonderful watching her grow! After we travel or have company visit, Lily is always a smarter, more capable baby. The new experiences and interaction with different people truly benefit her! I know she enjoyed all the extra attention from my mom and she also is learning about what can or cannot be tasted.

My mom started saying, "That's not for the mouth" and now if you tell her while she has something she shouldn't, she actually pauses and pulls it away. Sometimes she puts it right back in, but she is making great progress and I am in awe with how quickly kids can learn something new!

This video is from when Lily got her ears pierced and my mom let her have some ice cream. She really enjoyed it!

Goodbye Grammy!

This morning we dropped grammy off at the airport and we are sad to see her go! Our time together was so much fun--every day was packed! Even last night we didn't get to bed until after 2 AM and my mom was up at 5 preparing for her departure!

Sadly, I don't believe she will ever move out here to Kansas City, but I do know that she enjoyed her visit and will be back soon. We are going to miss her terribly and as soon as I got back from the airport I consoled myself with a piece of Carrot Cake from Bristol. It doesn't make up for my mom leaving, but it was delicious!

These are a few random pictures my mom took of Lily during her stay.

New earrings!

After much consideration we decided to pierce Lily's ears on Sunday.It was important to me that my mom was here for this momentous occasion. I will admit that I struggled to commit to it--questioning if I was taking away Lily's freedom to decide--I probably made a bigger deal out of this than necessary. But she is just so precious, I want to be the best mother possible!

Back to Claire's--An added bonus of having my mom there was that she actually held Lily during the procedure, which made me feel better. Of course, there were a few tears (hers and mine) but the new earrings look adorable!

Once we got home let her have a little treat (Rocky Road Ice Cream) because she was such a great sport!

Day one...

"What?! I can't go to bed yet--grammy just got here! The fun is just beginning!"

The first day of grammy's visit has been wonderful so far! Its only 61 degrees, but its been a beautiful, sunny day! We spent the day doing normal, everyday things: enjoying lunch at Panera and then grocery shopping. Nothing too exciting, but just the type of things we would do together if my mom lived in Kansas City! (My plan is working out perfectly...wink wink)


Last night when we picked my mom up from the airport, Lily was sleeping, but as soon as she realized there was a guest in our home she perked right up! She didn't go to sleep until after midnight! Although she was tired, she keep fighting it--She hates to miss a party and loves the extra attention!

Grammy in town for a visit!

Tonight we get to pick my mom up from the airport and we are looking forward to a great visit! Yesterday it was 80 degrees and gorgeous outside! I really hope the weather stays nice through the weekend so we can spend time outdoors. During her visit we have a night out at P&L and visits with friends planned. We want to convince my mom to move here! I will keep you posted on whether we are successful or not!

This week is going by so quickly--I think it is due to the anticipation of a guest! Of course I wanted to deep clean our home in preparation of my mom's arrival and that turned into a massive spring cleaning. That part was a blessing in disguise because I wanted to get around to it sooner, but the task seemed overwhelming and I couldn't motivate myself. Knowing we would have company this week, I was able to get it all done in two days!

De-cluttering our lives was one of my "resolutions" for this year and I am proud to say that we are doing well in that area as far as "stuff" goes. Once, a terrible pack-rat, now I feel a sense of accomplishment seeing the donation pile grow, the trash get tossed, and our space become more simple. I can't say the change happened over-night...I still want to keep things with sentimental value!

Now that we have less junk lying around, I hope my mom can offer some decorating tips for a new summer look.

Below is a picture I found of Lily and Parker. Tara and I probably couldn't take enough pictures of these two when they are together--The love each other!!

I knew she was advanced!

Today Lily pulled herself up in her crib, from a seated position into a standing position. Watching her figure out the mechanics of movement is fascinating and also very funny! Thankfully she was supervised while playing and now we know it is time to adjust her crib into stage 2!

She also made another phone call today! As most of you know, it is difficult for me to make a long story short, so I will share all the details:

Lily loves cell phones! I think it might be because the screen lights up when she presses the keys?? So I found my old cell phone and sanitized it for her this morning so she could have her very own.

While reading the paper this evening, I thought I heard a little voice talking. It sounded far away, so I figured it was outside...But after about thirty seconds I could still hear it. I looked away from my paper and over at Lily, who was in her jumper...jumping like crazy and being very noisy! Then it hit me--the voice was coming from her cell phone! I grabbed the phone and was shocked to discover a T-Mobile customer service representative on the other end of the line!

Somehow Lily turned the phone on and actually dialed 611! I could not believe that the representative stayed on the line for so long, but she had listened to Lily for nearly a minute! I didn't realize the phone still had a Sim card or that the battery was working after all this time. I am just glad she didn't dial 911 instead!

Clearly I need to consider things more thoroughly in the future...but of course it does make me laugh! Only my daughter could be given an old, broken, cell phone that is turned off and still find a way to call and chat with someone!

Open for Business!

Its official--EOSnutrition is open for business!

EOSnutrition is Eric's online store featuring sports and nutritional supplements.

Eric has always had an entrepreneurial spirit and I am so proud that he is actively pursuing his dreams!

Please visit his site: WWW.EOSNUTRITION.COM

Home movies

Lily's seven month "birthday" is coming up soon and sadly, I actually struggle to remember what it was like when we first brought her home! I am so glad we have lots of pictures and videos of her because the time has passed too quickly! I am so blessed to be able to stay home with Lily, I hate to think of all the precious moments I would miss out on if I had to leave her with a sitter Monday through Friday (But, because I love to torture myself, I do occasionally imagine myself in that scenario and it almost brings me to tears)!

Being home to truly watch her grow and learn is such a blessing! I wanted to share a few of our latest clips. I hope you enjoy them!

"Pool honeys!"

Lily has always loved the water. Now that she is outgrowing her baby bath tub, I occasionally like to take her "swimming" in our tub. She hasn't really learned to splash yet, but she does enjoy when the jets are on. She also likes to lay on her back in the water and "float". I look forward to when she wants to start taking bubble baths because I've heard the jets help create a crazy bubble mess! Its going to be so much fun!

Lazy day!

Today was a lazy day for our family--our favorite kind!!

Lily is so curious and silly--its unbelievable how she's developing! She keeps us laughing with her funny faces and monologues--it's the best part of our days! I wasn't sure if we could enjoy parenting more than we did when she first arrived, but each day keeps getting better!

We are so blessed!!

Fan Mail

Hello, loved ones!

Have you ever wanted to submit a question about Lily or a private comment about this blog but were unsure how to do so? Have you ever had a poll suggestion or maybe an entry of your own that you would like to see published on this page? Are you curious about sending an email directly to the little princess herself?

Well now you can! I've created a new email address specifically for readers of our blog to provide feedback, ask questions, and most importantly, communicate* with Miss Smith! Please note the address: sweetlilybelle@gmail.com

We look forward to hearing from you!

Hugs & Kisses!


*: As unusual as it may be, I like to write letters to Lily; Letters about our time together in the present moment, letters about the future, letters about what she means to you and me. As she gets older, I want her to be able to look back and know what her life was like even if she doesn't remember. If you would like to submit a similar type of letter, a bible verse, or a blessing for her future, it will be included in her memory box.

Baby news

I recently found out that a friend of ours is pregnant with her first child. Talking with her about pregnancy and parenthood lately has been so much fun because it allows me to reminisce about my own experiences--I actually miss being pregnant!! Its such a beautiful thing: Knowing a tiny baby is being knit together inside of you. Its hard to comprehend how God set such special plans in place...New life is a true miracle!

Of course I advised her to cherish every moment of being pregnant and encouraged her to document her journey more thoroughly than I did with my own...I just didn't realize how quickly the memories would fade or how much I would love the experience. Does it sound odd that I sometimes want to re-live that time? I certainly don't mean I want to be pregnant a second time, I just mean that I would like to re-do 2008 again--I enjoyed it so much!

6 month check up

Today was Lily's six month check up--She is 27.5 inches long and she weighs 17 pounds 13 ounces. That puts her in the 75-90% for weight and 95% for height! She was a little more sensitive after her immunizations today than she has been at previous appointments, but quickly cheered up after a visit from her friend Parker!

Her second tooth also finally came through her gums today--the right lower central incisor. Tonight while playing with a teething toy she actually bit her lip and made it bleed! So many tears in one day...Its been a long day, even for me!

Even now, I still tear up when she cries from pain or discomfort! I don't know how I'll handle her first scraped knee, bike wreck, or broken heart! She's such an angel, I wish I could protect her from all the disappointments she'll face later in life.

6 months old today!

Well the day finally arrived--My baby is six months old!

In some ways it seems like our first days together, when she was fragile and so delicate, were ages ago! But, it also seems like just yesterday when I saw her tiny face and heard her little cry for the first time!

There is so much I want to say about what this time means to me, but I know I've said most of it all before...Not surprisingly, these have been the best six months of our lives! Each day is filled with so much joy and love--we are blessed beyond belief!




To celebrate her half birthday we decided to get some Gerber Biter Biscuits. Although the package says they are intended for children ten months and older, we bought them anyway. Lily handles her little celery and carrot sticks so well, I knew she would be okay with the biscuit. What I didn't know was how messy it would be!

After a few minutes with the biscuit it was obvious she would need a bath and fresh clothes. But watching her taste the new flavor and examine the cookie made it more than worth the clean up effort! I love watching her learn and I am excited for what the next six months will bring!

Lunch date

Today Lily and I had a lunch date with a former co-worker, Dawn (Please see Bass Family in Our Friends section to learn more about her). Dawn and I have talked about getting together for nearly a year and it finally happened!

Of course, it was fun to hear about what I'm "missing out on" at my old job (wink, wink) but the best part was actually seeing her and being able to continue our friendship right where we left off...it was almost as if 10 months hadn't passed since I last saw her. I guess that's the great thing about her blog--I've been able to read about their family's daily life and still feel connected to her.

Lily was very well behaved at lunch and she took to Dawn naturally (Maybe she could tell Dawn had some previous experience with babies and she felt safe?). Lily hasn't yet reached a point where she feels uncomfortable with new people, but she does do better with some than with others!

I asked Eric to take a picture of us today since we matched (Some might say, "Matchy, matchy, green squared!"). Below is Lily showing off her shiny new tooth! Its hard to get a clear picture of it because every time I try, she sticks her tongue out.